Vermaning (5)
Introduction
Vermaning is a Dutch word that means “admonition” or “warning”. It can also refer to a sermon or lecture that is intended to be instructive or corrective. In Christianity, vermaning is often used in the context of disciplining a person for sin.
Bible Verses on Vermaning
There are many Bible verses that speak about vermaning. Here are a few examples:
- Hebrews 12:5-6: “And have you forgotten the word of encouragement that speaks to you as to children, ‘My son, do not despise the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary of his reproof, for the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and he chastises every one whom he receives as a son’?”
- Proverbs 3:11-12: “My son, do not despise the discipline of the Lord, or be weary of his reproof, for the Lord reproves the one he loves, as a father reproves the son he delights in.”
- 2 Timothy 4:2: “Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with all patience and teaching.”
The Purpose of Vermaning
The purpose of vermaning is not to punish or humiliate the person being admonished. Rather, it is to help them grow in their faith and become more like Christ. Vermaning should always be done in a spirit of love and compassion.
How to Give Vermaning
If you are ever called upon to give vermaning to someone, it is important to do so in a way that is both effective and loving. Here are a few tips:
- Pray for the person. Before you approach the person, take some time to pray for them. Ask God to give you wisdom and discernment, and ask Him to prepare their heart to receive your words.
- Talk to the person in private. Vermaning should not be done in public. Find a time and place where you can talk to the person privately.
- Be direct. Don’t beat around the bush. Get to the point quickly and clearly.
- Be specific. Don’t just make general accusations. Be specific about what the person has done wrong.
- Be loving. Even though you are confronting the person’s sin, you should still do so in a spirit of love. Don’t be harsh or accusatory.
- Offer encouragement. Let the person know that you believe in them and that you are confident that they can change.
Conclusion
Vermaning is a difficult but important task. When done in a loving and compassionate way, it can help people grow in their faith and become more like Christ.
I hope this helps!